The second of the five Observances listed in the eight limbs of Yoga is Contentment. One of the great blessings of life is learning to be content. While many folks are never content, some are. The irony is that those who are frequently appear less likely to be so. They may have less in terms of money, property, love, power and health. A simple explanation for this is that discontent goads one to strive harder for all these things. The fellow who is content with a small income, a modest home, simple clothes and plain food is unlikely to become rich. The humble fellow who does not envy the rulers, who does not chafe beneath the rules, who accepts the bounds of society and tradition and who does not long to overpower others in the arenas of sports, politics, war and conversation will probably not rise very far in the pyramid of dominance. The one who accepts solitude, who does not spend idle time and extra money seeking friendships, dates and meaningful relationships, will probably not rack up large scores in terms of love, emotional conquests, charisma or membership in groups.
Mark Twain wrote a short story called "The Five Boons of Life." In this charming tale, a fairy comes to a man early in his life with a basket and offers him the choice of one of the contents, which are fame, love, riches, pleasure and death. Suffice it to say that this guy makes short work of the obvious boons. Read it if you want to know how it ends. I mention this story only because Twain describes so well the vanity of the things that people seek.
Serendipity can give any or all of these boons to a person during his or her life. Contentment has more to do with the ability to weave ones way through these ups and downs without riding the emotional roller coaster. People who have a lot of money or property often have difficulty appreciating it. Unrestrained love and pleasure can lead one into boredom. All of these boons of life are good things, but too much of any of them can leave us jaded.
For one who wishes to practice Yoga, being content is a useful virtue. It allows one to sit in contemplation without being harassed by the many fears and hungers that pull us this way and that. As with all of the limbs of Yoga, is is not necessary to be perfectly content. Perfection, if it comes at all, will sneak in unbidden. One cannot yearn and strain for serenity, for that itself can amount to the opposite. People spend a lot of money, time and energy trying to relax. Let it be.